An unkind word...

Everyone has been so wonderful, encouraging and loving since learning of my pregnancy. Why should I be so surprised at one person's refusal to think before speaking? What made it hurt was this is someone I love and referred to as a family member, but no longer. I received a message on facebook so full of venom and judgment that I can forgive, because it's what I'm told to do, but I don't know how long it will take for me to forget. We don't have to accept it when people are ugly like this, but now is not the time for me to be stressed or upset so I'm turning my back and letting God handle it.